through the way that you play. i mean, you know, it is shocking. i mean you could do analysis of reporters as well on this story. that why would these things. >> right. martha: when you look back, feels like so many red flags should have been raised to this. >> you know there are some people that otherwise, you know, that they have friends and high functioning all of that, but when it comes to this one area of romance, they have got all sorts of insecurities, et cetera and they will build fantasy lives around very small things. and that is really, really possible here. however, we see a guy that is well-integrated into a lot of community and relationships and high functioning and to think that kind of a fantasy could be sustained beginning off of a little tweet or the other account is, they just spotted each other in, i think 09. you know, it takes some reaching to believe that.